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I confronted him right away on the phone and he was hysterical and apologized and begged me to stay.Long story short, we never sought therapy for it and I forgave him because I didn’t think he had any kind of addiction – I had never even heard of a sex addict. I confronted him again and he swore that he was just looking and he doesn’t do this regularly.
He spoils me in every way and I love him very much. Then earlier this week I was on the computer again and his work email was up. 99.9% was work, but there was 3 email exchanges that he had had with a brief girlfriend back in the states that I opened – he had just written them day before. She had originally contacted him, asking him how he was.We will go to one initial session together, then you will have your 6 sessions by yourself, then we will meet the counselor together again after your 6 sessions.We can assess after how many times you need to go to counseling thereafter.I have never been so close in my life to hitting someone with intentions to create immense bodily harm. I immediately told him that he is to go to treatment and I will set boundaries, and it he does not seek treatment or abide by my boundaries, I will leave an divorce him.He has since admitted that he has a problem and broke down in tears saying that he is so torn inside and feels that he has a “Bad” self and a “good” self – but doesn’t know what the problem is and has agreed very willingly to seek treatment and help right away. I have attached that document, if you would like to see it. Every bone in my body is telling me to divorce and never look back.I am emotionally drained, but I am hoping that by sharing my story, I will feel at least a little better.
Well, to say that I have just found out about it is wrong.If you truly believe that this marriage is the most important thing in your life, then you will think about the repercussions of all your actions to the marriage.YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO SET BOUNDARIES AND ABIDE BY THOSE BOUNDARIES.Hello Jo Ann, I found your website a couple of days ago and am so glad I found it.I just found out about my husband’s secret earlier this week.However, if you feel the urge to feel a connection or to talk about how you are feeling, DO NOT SIT BY YOURSELF AND SULK OR KEEP IT INSIDE.